Stop dreading your ex’s emails.
InboxDetox intercepts hostile emails from difficult exes and rewrites them in a calm, friendly voice — preserving every important date, deadline, and detail. You get the information. Not the nonsense.
Same message. Different experience.
The facts preserved, the hostility gone.
If Jackie isn't at baseball practice by 4:15 I swear to god I will make your life a living hell. You're so selfish and pathetic it makes me sick.
Hey — just a heads up that Jackie needs to be at baseball practice by 4:15. — Diego
Here’s what happens every time they write.
After a one-time 5-minute setup, InboxDetox works automatically in the background.
Their email is intercepted
When they send you a message, Gmail quietly forwards it to InboxDetox before it ever reaches your inbox. You never see the original land.
The hostility is overwritten
Your chosen guide — a clear-eyed journalist, a sharp-minded CEO — rewrites the message. Every threat and insult is removed. Every fact is kept.
You receive a calm version
You receive the translated email as if it came from your guide. Same dates, same requests, same deadlines — delivered without the vitriol.
Emails bypass your inbox
Emails bypass your inbox and are retained in your email provider's archive — Gmail's All Mail folder, or Outlook's Archive.
Threats are flagged immediately
Every message is assessed for hostility. If an email contains a threat of physical violence, it's flagged so you can take appropriate action to ensure your own safety. If you are in danger or experiencing abuse, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788.
Meet your guides
6 guides. You choose the voice. Change anytime.
Diego
“The Journalist”
Strips out the noise from your emails and delivers exactly what was said — nothing more.
Claire
“The CEO”
Handles your ex’s communications efficiently, always with your interests front of mind.
Edna
“The Diplomat”
Takes different perspectives to show you what’s actually being communicated — not just what was said.
Hiroshi
“The Director”
Sees the emotional dynamics and strips out the performance, so you get the essence without the drama.
Linh
“The Engineer”
Understands the structure of the communications and manages the boundaries that protect your system.
Owen
“The Teacher”
Gently surfaces the learning opportunities for you in all you experience.
Important things still get through.
InboxDetox is designed to preserve every date, deadline, legal reference, and financial detail — delivered without the hostility attached to it. At the top of each translated email, key facts are pulled out into a quick-reference table so the important stuff is always easy to find.
The original is retained in your email provider's archive — Gmail's All Mail folder, or Outlook's Archive — and can also be viewed through your InboxDetox dashboard.
Dates and deadlines
Legal references and demands
Financial amounts and requests
Information about your kids
Anything requiring action
Original retained in your email archiveSimple pricing
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Get Started FreeDisclaimer:
InboxDetox is a communication tool, not a legal, mental health, or safety service. Translated emails are AI-generated and may not perfectly capture all nuances of the original message. Original emails are retained in your email provider’s archive (Gmail’s All Mail folder, or Outlook’s Archive) and can also be viewed through your InboxDetox dashboard. If you are in danger or experiencing abuse, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788.